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Wednesday, February 13, 2013

Five Attitudes That Helps You Get The Girl of Your Choice

Attitude 1: Get Exciting: Hot girls like guys who are exciting.To be exciting you have to be spontaneous. Play the unpredictable bad guy, and you have already set something in motion in her mind. Go around her, and make moves that she least expects. Make her laugh. Pick her up from the floor, toss her around, drag her, and do all sorts of things that make her feel less like a woman to be cared for and respected.

Result: She has lost her firm grip. She will be willing to bend to you because psychologically, she holds the belief that you have got a firm grip of her.

Attitude 2: Be Intimate: physical intimacy occurs when you are able to touch her and there is almost no barrier between the two of you. But girls need more than that. Get closer and spill some rotten beans about yourself, even before she asks. Set the mood, your voice pitch and control the atmosphere (e.g, by playing music, dimming the light, taking her to a quiet place, etc). Tell her your secrets, even if you have none, cook up something. Tell her a sob story.

Result: She needs to know you are strong, not because you have no sad story but because despite the challenges you've faced, you have decided to be the happy person. You have set the motion of trust in her. Now she realises you need to be loved, just like her.


Attitude 3: Be Interested: showing a girl maximum interest is the greatest of all the five. When you show interest, you will devote time in hearing her talk about her life, her family and those she cares about. This is the hardest part for most guys, and this is why most guys lose when they are trying to win the girl they love. Showing interest means knowing how to talk to her, the right questions to ask, how to keep the conversation going, and how to make her talk about herself without making it obvious. You also have to learn how to concentrate on what she is saying,vocally and bodily. Allowing your mind stray to her lips, her body, what she looks like in bed etc will make you lose focus, so keep your eyes glued and ears wide open.

Result: Being interested gives you that edge over others who are also trying to woo her. She begins to trust you and her interest in you becomes peaked. at this stage of your intimate affair, she becomes very vulnerable to you and can easily oblige 70 percent of your requests.

Attitude 4: Be Influential: your influence should be at a peak in her mind. The question is how do you do this? First of all, you have to know or at least have your pattern of behaviour. If you don't have one, then you might not be the right kind of guy for a hot lady. If you do then it's something she must know you for. If you smoke for instance, have a timetable for smoking. Let her know it. Never feel shy to tell a girl the bad things you do. Try to influence her to it. Let it be a challenge to her whether to join you or not.

Result: she is thinking about you most of the time. She is either trying to fight off the pressure or she is trying to change you. Either ways, you've occupied her mind. It's a very good thing when you stay on a girl's mind. It makes her like you more.

Attitude 5: Be Sarcastic: to be sarcastic means you have to be very good at teasing. Girls love it when you tease them. Learn how to flatter. It makes girls happy to know you make them feel good. But being sarcastic is a step higher than flattery. Its a way of sending flattery hidden behind a puzzle. It is more like a riddle which the girl has to solve to get her flattery bonus. When you are sarcastic, you will have pick up lines at your beck and call. You will also have many ideas on how to make a date wonderful and exciting. However, the danger of being sarcastic is that a girl might see you as a player. But that shouldn't bother you now, should it?

Result: Being sarcastic trips a girl in a million ways. It makes her see you as an intelligent dude, and of course it helps you sweep her off her feet. Being sarcastic is the way to get any lady to like you whether you are interested in dating her or not. No matter her age, any lady can easily be impressed with words, and that's where being sarcastic comes in. It keeps them reflecting and smiling most especially when they are alone.

After you must have mastered this skills, you will find yourself having the ladies at the tip of your fingers. Feel free to ask her out and watch her say yes like she's been waiting all her life for that moment. Everybody wants power and the power to have any girl you want is overwhelming. Use your power wisely, so you don't end up breaking hearts of innocent girls.



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